Relationship Dating: Leave Them Wanting More

In his autobiography, Tony Curtis recalled some valuable advice given to him by one of the icons of the film Cary Grant. He told Curtis the best way to inform the public wants to see more of him was by making sure they did not see too much of him.

Grant was, of course, relaying a message that many a producer and press agent for trying to tell him some Hollywood movie stars. Some listened did not. Those who have not, but soon found that a public that once adored them had already grown tired of seeing them. Too many bad movies and the excessive ended many careers.

In dating relationship, the same rule applies. Sparks fly at the beginning as you and your day can not get enough of each other. You spend every day together including the weekend. Multiple calls per day hours. Meeting each other on your lunch break and hang out after work. Let us not forget the Internet where you constantly e-mail and instant message each other.

And then it's over. Neither can you find out why you suddenly can not stand the sight of each other. No doubt can be any number of reasons, but as familiar can breed contempt than excessive exposure can make you downright hostile. Regardless of how well things are going, try to keep a few things in mind:

1. Talk to you later

Unless you're in a space capsule orbiting the earth, you do not have to be in constant contact with Mission Control also known as your significant other. Call or e-mail once a day is enough (every other day is even better). People need more time to digest information they received and that in a relationship. Contact with someone more than once a day can be fun in the beginning but after a while it can lead to the sigh. This is a time where your other important a deep breath and ask themselves, 'Now, what do they want? "
 
2. Days Off

For many couples who are dating, this is unthinkable. They believe it is essential to stay in each other's space so they can get to know each other better. The problem is getting to know each other better soon feel like smothering. You can not move without them breathing down your neck, and vice versa. During the first two of you chalked up to love. Time is a way to resentment.
    
3. Your own circle

The mistake many couples do is believe in the myth of a hundred percent compatibility and in the beginning of a dating relationship, it seems just that. But it does not exist. There will be tastes and interests that you have your dating partner does not share. That is fine. It gives you both more time to spend in your own social circles. That does not mean that you should not take an interest in a number of other things you find important. It means that you do not have to share everything to a successful relationship.

Dating relationships can be very deceptive. The flood of beautiful emotions you both feel you can bring together, but it may cause you to the path of the demolition. Enjoy each other's company, but is slow and sure to give each other enough space to breathe. Getting too much of the good swiftly to only increases the chances of both of you ever tired of the relationship very quickly