
Then it is back to work for more SMS, messages and e-mail. Finally, the work day is over and you come together for more fun and excitement. But it does not stop there. After your date than you two retreat back to your own computers for more information (you guessed it) SMS messaging and e-mail. And tomorrow starts the whole routine
The whole looks and sounds so wonderful in the early days of dating relationship, but sometimes too much of the good within a short time, an acid relationship. Nobody plans to break, but the lack of breathing room has many collapsed a couple who swore endless love for each other.
There are several reasons for this turnabout
1. Information overload
It's like eating your favorite food. In the beginning you can not get enough of, but even after you eat so much that you sick. E-mail, call, SMS and all the rest can be cute at the beginning and middle periods of even the dating relationship, but there is too much on a constant basis is just asking for trouble.
2. Time
It is a way of rubbing the glow of a relationship. Not so much love and respect that should hopefully always be there, but the foolish and rush of emotions seem to subside after awhile.
Some people may say all the more reason to front loading of the process since the time has a tendency to strip away the magic. That is also true to an extent that time, but you can also experience the things in your crowding, making unnecessary stress. This can go for everything, including your dating relationships.
3. Resentment
Your date was so much fun in the beginning. Not anymore. It is not that they have it with you, but their reactions to your flood of communications are not as fast as they are used. It could be that things have come and they are busy taking care of business. Sometimes it is the other side. Your constant interruptions they begin to think that you just control them. In other words, you're doing nothing but spying and perhaps try to control them. It has been known to happen.
There is no other way to get to know one another, except by maintaining contact. But in this life, there is unfortunately something called "too much of the good." As strong as you feel about your dating partner the best you can do to ensure that the relationship is growing to show some restraint and give the other person ample breathing room.
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